Well here I am on Zoosk, a dating website. I’ve sent messages to several women who appealed to me. So far, no one has expressed interest. Oh well. I’m sensing that whether it’s from Zoosk or some other source (such as Cuba in April!) a new love will be entering my life. Someone unknown to me today will be by my side within the next year.
New. What a concept. A letting go of the past to some extent. My love for Jody and for my friends will always be there but there’ll be some type of breakthrough.
1. A new human being. Maybe shy or maybe assertive. Maybe athletic or not so much. Older than me? Younger than me? Likes to travel or a homebody? A great cook or “Let’s eat out”? Action movies or romantic ones? A cyclist like me or a swimmer not like me? Oh, what mystery.
2. Your home or mine? I’ve lived on Bostwick Road in Union, Ontario for 21 years. It’s a big place. Lots of upkeep required and I’ve never been good at home maintenance. Maybe it’s time to let go of all that. Perhaps my future love lives in a downtown condo. Neighbours on the other side of the wall. Someone else cutting the grass. Take off to the Caribbean without a worry in the world.
3. Your city or my village? I could find myself living in Toronto, the city where I grew up. Or near the forks of the Thames River in London, Ontario. Walk to cool places to dine. A city park just a stroll away.
4. Europe? I’ve never been. All those ancient buildings. Sitting in a sidewalk café on a cobblestone square. Trying out my high school French. Why not?
5. Family The only close family members Jody and I have had are her brother Lance and his family in Alberta. I especially love my nephews out there. But in Ontario we were alone. What if I discover a prospective partner who has children and grandkids? I would love that. To perhaps be a grandpa-type figure! I miss all the fine school conversations I had over the years with young people from Grades 1 to 12.
I’m open to whatever beckons me