Some presence created the human body … the female ones and the males. It’s a good design. I’m glad I have one.
I’ve noticed that my eyes are on the front of my head. They look forward, with the range of sharp focus being pretty narrow. That’s fine, I guess. I can concentrate on the object in front of me.
Yesterday something new showed up, although I figure it’s been bubbling under the surface for awhile.
I started feeling 360 degrees, with my vision heading out in all directions. As if my eyes encircled my head. Like this …
Of course my physical eyes still point only forward, but something has changed. I’m literally centered. In my best moments, I’m including everyone and everything. Naturally I have many other moments of ordinary consciousness. However …
Yesterday I stood in Gent centrum and watched about 12,000 people pass by … at various speeds. I was cheering on my friend Petra and my friend Tessi (mother and daughter). Twenty-one kilometres of running is an achievement. I’m proud of them both.
I scanned a lot of approaching faces as I searched for the two I know. Woh! That tired me out … and I was standing still.
But here they came … faces were full of delight as their hands slapped mine. I was afraid I had missed the moment, but no fear. We met.
And then there was the flow of humanity:
The elite athletes … slim and fast
The slow joggers … a few occasionally stumbling
The hordes of firefighters… oxygen tanks strapped to their backs
The grey-haired folks … looking stiff in the joints
The bright-eyed ones … as they spot a beloved in the crowd
The intense ones … their arms rigid and a bit high
The zen floaters … their feet seeming a few centimetres above the ground
The mothers and daughters, fathers and sons … familyall
A young man pushing a handicapped fellow in an adult-sized stroller … happy to help
Everybody … 12,000 bodies and souls, flowing together
I’ve had many mentors in my life, as in “experienced and trusted advisors who provide guidance, support and knowledge to a less experienced person” … me.
Mrs. Hudson – Grade 8 teacher at Bedford Park Public School in Toronto
Michael Bliss – history teacher at Lawrence Park Collegiate in Toronto
Jim Bayly – professor in the Carleton University School of Social Work in Ottawa
Joel Brass – psychologist and personal development seminar leader in Lethbridge, Alberta
Gordon Campbell – professor in the University of Lethbridge Faculty of Education
Greg Scharf – teacher at the Insight Meditation Society in Massachusetts, USA
Patricia Albere – founder of the Evolutionary Collective, based in New York City
Some of these marvelous human beings are dead. Some are alive. They’ve all been my captain … a teacher in the true depth of the word.
And when they leave this planet, the poet Walt Whitman helps me grieve and honour:
O Captain! my Captain! our fearful trip is done The ship has weather’d every rack, the prize we sought is won The port is near, the bells I hear, the people all exulting While follow eyes the steady keel, the vessel grim and daring But O heart! heart! heart! O the bleeding drops of red Where on the deck my Captain lies Fallen cold and dead
O Captain! my Captain! rise up and hear the bells Rise up – for you the flag is flung – for you the bugle trills For you bouquets and ribbon’d wreaths – for you the shores a-crowding For you they call, the swaying mass, their eager faces turning Here Captain! dear father! This arm beneath your head! It is some dream that on the deck You’ve fallen cold and dead
My Captain does not answer, his lips are pale and still My father does not feel my arm, he has no pulse nor will The ship is anchor’d safe and sound, its voyage closed and done From fearful trip the victor ship comes in with object won Exult O shores, and ring O bells! But I with mournful tread Walk the deck my Captain lies Fallen cold and dead
Ten minutes ago (now thirty), as I sat in Lloyd Coffee Eatery enjoying my cheddar and bacon bun, a woman approached me with a big smile. I didn’t know her but I smiled back.
Something was “off” about her face. The smile was real but her eyes weren’t touching mine. And then I realized … she was smiling at someone sitting at the table behind me. (Sigh) The yearning for contact denied.
Sometimes I wonder if other people see me as “off” when I’m looking at them. In my less brave moments, I don’t look softly into the depths of their eyes. It’s more like the bridge of their nose. Hmm … that’s not how I want to be – a subtle fear being stronger than love.
In my better moments, the two of us are so together in the eyes. It’s peace.
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I’ve met a few famous people in my life. One was Archbishop Desmond Tutu. He was speaking in a Toronto cathedral. Afterwards we were invited to line up down the centre aisle to say “Hi” to the great man. It was a long line.
Closer, closer … and I didn’t know what to say. Now I don’t remember what I said.
As Desmond and I talked for a few seconds, a sadness fell on me. He was looking over my shoulder the whole time, gazing down the line of people waiting for him. (Sigh again)
My eyes have been following my TV screen to Prague in the Czech Republic. There is gliding to be seen.
The women’s single competition is fine. So is the men’s. One person leaping into the air and rotating three or even four times before gently returning to the ice. Exquisite. And it doesn’t deeply draw my heart.
It’s the pairs competition that holds me close. And there’s something far beyond what the judges seem to be focusing on. They allocate points for the man throwing the woman into the air, and for him lifting her high while he skates on. Those moves interest me but they don’t take my breath away.
One thing that the judges and I agree upon is the synchronization of woman and man doing the same series of jumps, a few metres apart. If the follow through is perfectly in time with each other, there is joy in my heart – one arm extended forward, one leg extended backward.
However …
All this skill and timing pale before the ineffable, which seems to be a very fine word:
Something too great, intense or sacred to be expressed in words
But words are all I have here (other than photos).
A highly skilled couple from Germany came first, became world champions. But a pair from Japan touched my heart. Yuna Nagaoka and Sumitada Moriguchi. All I have are scattered words:
These are the founding faculty members of the University of Lethbridge in Canada. It was 1967.
Take a look at the faces. Is there one that shines? Of course, your response may be different from mine.
Gordon Campbell was my Philosophy of Education professor in 1976 or so. I am now clear: Gordon was the best teacher in my life. He stands tall in the back row.
There were no exams in his course. No papers. Only an ongoing assignment …
“Every week, write something about connections you’re making between your life and what it means to be a teacher”
Unheard of in my short life experience.
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I had loved studying Latin in high school (much to the amusement of my friends). Finding the origin of words. Here are two:
Indoctrination
“in doctrina” … putting teachings in
Education
“e duco” … drawing out what is inside
Gordon Campbell was an educator.
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Two more words:
Charisma is a compelling, magnetic charm or personal quality that enables an individual to influence, inspire and attract others.
Having Presence means possessing a compelling, often magnetic, demeanor that makes a person immediately noticed, admired, or felt, regardless of whether they are speaking.
No … “The Senses” is not some obscure British rock group. It’s the five usual suspects of the body: seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting and touching.
And maybe more.
In Buddhism, the sixth sense is the mind … which treats thoughts, memories and emotions as mental objects, equivalent to how the eye perceives sights or the ear hears sounds.
I’m used to seeing “Greatest Hits” collections of musical artists. I wonder about the songs – greatest according to whom?
I am the only whom that I know well. And therefore I humbly present to you my version of the body’s coolest things. (Not to disparage the glories of muscles, blood vessels and other fancy stuff.)
It was 1961 or so. I was 12 or so. Mom and Dad had just bought me a turntable. And it would play 33 LP records! That is, 12-inch (30 cm) vinyl discs that spun at 33 1/3 revolutions per minute – a long play album that would hold about 25 minutes of music on each side.
This kid didn’t care about the technical stuff. He wanted to play Buddy Holly in his bedroom. Buddy was my hero … but he had died in a plane crash and my young sorrow was deep. I would never see him in concert.
“That’ll Be The Day” hummed in my soul but still took second place to the immortal “Peggy Sue”.
Being an independent young man, and offered delightful moments of freedom by my parents, I got on my local Toronto bus which took me to the Eglinton Subway Station. I was whisked away to the Dundas Street Station downtown. And then a brisk walk on Yonge Street towards music mecca: the Sam The Record Man store.
I was on a mission. I knew how to find Buddy amid the racks of musicians. And there it came to my hands – The BuddyHollyStory. I bought my first record album!
Back home, I zoomed upstairs to my room for a first listen. Oh, joy! Oh, delight! Buddy wailing, lifting me way up high.
Later, I snuck down to mom’s kitchen, for I knew that one drawer contained a … microphone! Here’s what it looked like:
In the hidden recesses of my home, right above the living room, I belted out the lyrics I loved …
If you knew Peggy Sue Then you’d know why I feel blue Without Peggy, my Peggy Sue Oh well I love you gal, yes, I love you Peggy Sue
Peggy Sue, Peggy Sue Pretty, pretty, pretty, pretty Peggy Sue Oh Peggy, my Peggy Sue Oh well I love you gal, and I need you Peggy Sue
I remember loving the four pretties in a row. Actually, I don’t need to remember. I’m loving them right now.
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And now, please journey back with me to the days of yesteryear
Demi Vollering is a Dutch cyclist who’s currently ranked second in the world. She’s won the Tour de France and other major races.
Her face shines on the left.
Demi is known for speaking her mind, bringing attention to issues such as female cyclists dealing with their periods, and fans appreciating male riders a lot … and women riders a lot less.
She’s not the type to be chanting Om Mani Padme Hum in a cave. And yet I see a connection:
These words are often translated as The Jewel in the Lotus. “The six syllables represent the transformation of an impure body, speech and mind into the pure, enlightened form of a Buddha.”
The Buddha had many marvelous insights. My favourite is his embracing of mudita or empathetic joy as “a rare and beautiful state”.
The Buddhist author Charlotte Bell had this to say:
Mudita is … happiness in response to the success and happiness of others. Not surprisingly, there is no word for this concept in our language. In hyper-competitive Western culture, the concept of being happy for someone else’s success is quite foreign. Feeling mudita goes against the grain of our concept of success and happiness.
It’s as if we think there’s a little cache of happiness available, and when someone else partakes of it, there’s less for us. But that’s not how it works. In decades of mudita practice, I’ve realized that the more happiness I feel for another person’s success, the happier I am. In contrast to the dank, claustrophobic feeling that envy engenders, empathetic joy feels bright and boundless.
And The Dalai Lama chimes in …
If I am only happy for myself, many fewer chances for happiness. If I am happy when good things happen to other people, billions more chances to be happy.
Now, in good company, let’s hear about Demi:
From a young age, Vollering realised that witnessing other people’s enjoyment made her happy. She was lifted, vicariously, by their having fun.
What do you do if you’re sick and you’re tired of sleeping and you’re a cycling fan? You watch the Milan-Sanremo races, both the women and men.
It was 156 kilometres of intense racing, of “thrills and chills”. At the end of it all, Belgium’s Lotte Kopecky stood victorious. She’s the middle woman in the picture.
The media wrote about the winner, the exciting moments, about who rode well, and who didn’t. The usual stuff.
But there was a pause in the minds of a million viewers. For life had intruded, as recorded by a helicopter camera. On a descent that curved sharply, the Polish rider Kasia Niewiadoma crashed into the barrier. Other riders immediately smashed into her. Farther back, the cyclists couldn’t see what had happened on the curve.
Debora Silvestri from Italy crashed into the pileup and was launched … over the guardrail and several metres down to a road below. She lay motionless … and then the camera cut away to the leaders.
I cried.
I don’t know Debora. But I know human beings. Life often hurts.
Debora’s team has issued an update:
Laboral Kutxa said Silvestri is currently stable after being treated by race doctors and emergency services.
She will remain in hospital for the next few hours under medical supervision, with further tests planned to establish the full extent of her injuries.
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