First of all, I think of food and drink. I just don’t want as much as I used to. And it’s not that I’m trying to lose weight. I just like the semi-empty feeling. It’s soft inside my body, and spacious. My stomach just sits there, instead of pressing against my pants.
I have a long history of “more” in the arena of nourishment. My former wife Rita and I regularly went with her parents to Erickson’s Family Restaurant in Lethbridge, Alberta. Just about every time, I’d eat so much, usually prime rib or steak. And after an overflowing sweet dessert, I’d invariably undo my belt and the button of my pants (discreetly, of course, under the tablecloth). Today I’m shocked that I found this normal back in the 1970s.
Up until a couple of years ago, Jody and I would go out most Friday nights to Longhorn’s, a roadhouse in St. Thomas. And more of the invariably – I’d down 30 ounces of beer, then feel horribly bloated, and then fall asleep at home within an hour of our arrival. Normal all right – normally vacant in the head.
And it’s not just food. I want less noise. I want less speed (and I used to love playing the video game “Need For Speed”). I want less TV. I want fewer clothes. I want less small talk. And it seems that I want less talk of any kind, even discussions of spirituality. More and more, I want to be silent – still very much with people – but quiet.
But then I also joke around a lot with folks, including strangers. I don’t want less of that … I guess … Gosh, I’m just not understanding myself very well right now. But wait a minute – maybe I want less of that too. Understanding stuff, exploring the mind of reason, having an opinion.
I truly wonder what type of human being I’m becoming.