It’s hard to write this title. I keep my word. But not this time.
A week or so ago, I told you I’d be singing at an open mic last night. I didn’t go.
I could have written about something else today. You probably wouldn’t have remembered my promise. I could have silently let yesterday fall into the past. But I would have known. “When in doubt, Bruce, communicate … tell the truth.”
I could list a whole bunch of reasons why I didn’t show up … but I don’t want to do that. If I did go down that path, I can imagine two general responses from you, my readers:
Those are reasonable reasons. It’s good that you didn’t keep your word.
Those are unreasonable reasons. It’s bad that you didn’t keep your word.
Instead of all that analysis, I choose to sit quietly with the fact that I didn’t do what I said I’d do. As well, I see that I need to be careful about promising things. If the promise is tied to a certain date, I need to anticipate what life will be like then, and whether it works to promise that I’ll do something.
I love the expression “On we go”
After all the good stuff and all the bad stuff, I continue
There’s a lot of life still to be lived
It was very brave to even consider an open mic … at least my world. Louise loves performing: opposites do attract.
However, do not despair a broken promise. Your honesty settles that.
I forgot to reply to you, Jeff! I *am* brave to stand up there and sing. And yes, I am honest. Thank you, my friend.