The Buddha said that life includes both praise and blame. We can try our darndest to avoid the blame part but that effort will be futile. Perhaps we imagine a reality in which only praise comes our way, and we think that would be marvelous. Looking closer though, I bet most of us don’t know what to do with people singing our virtues.
Today I was in a Zoom meeting with five other folks under the umbrella of the Evolutionary Collective. Each person was to be the focus for fifteen minutes. The rest of us simply gazed at the human being onscreen and asked ourselves what we “got” … what aspects of the person were speaking to us. In the most profound, who is this person anyway? We didn’t know biographical details. Except for one of them, I didn’t even know where they lived. All we did was look and respond aloud to “What am I experiencing?” as we looked into their eyes.
When it was my turn, the other folks showered me with praise with words that touched far deeper than my personality or good deeds. I choose not to tell you what they said. I don’t see the purpose in doing that. It’s not important that you agree with their assessments. It’s not valuable to hear various adjectives being laid on my shoulders.
So what’s a guy to do in response?
1. Aw, shucks
2. No, no … that’s not me
3. (A big and nervous smile)
4. Thank you
I’ve always liked the number 4. “Just receive it, Bruce. Let it in. Let it inform you about what’s next in your life. Let the goodness spoken find further expression.”
I remain unbloated
I know that I’m here to serve
I will continue to do so