The man, who, being really on the Way, falls upon hard times in the world will not, as a consequence, turn to that friend who offers him refuge and comfort and encourages his old self to survive. Rather, he will seek out someone who will faithfully and inexorably help him to risk himself, so that he may endure the suffering and pass courageously through it. Only to the extent that man exposes himself over and over again to annihilation can that which is indestructible arise within him. In this lies the dignity of daring
Karlfried Graf Durckheim
Refuge: a place that provides protection from danger
Annihilation: the state of being completely destroyed
Indestructible: impossible to destroy or break
Daring: venturesome boldness
He’s another word to define, one that I’m in the middle of:
Retirement: the time of life when one chooses to permanently leave the workforce behind
Retirement: removal of something from service or use
So, being 71, should I contemplate the perennial nature of the couch? Should I quietly remove myself from service? After all, there are gourmet foods to eat; Caribbean vacations to embrace; friends to have coffee with, mulling over politics and sports. “Refuge” is a good word. I’ve earned the rest, the slowness of will, regressing to the mean.
Boring!
How about instead a grand adventure, calling out for other humans to join a revolution in consciousness? I can throw myself into a project that seems at first glance “a bridge too far”. I can go towards the barriers, the booby traps. I can come nose-to-nose with the destroyer of dreams … and not waver or break.
Shall I be bold, venturing into the lands described by Jean-Luc Picard in Star Trek: The Next Generation:
These are the voyages of the starship Enterprise
Its five-year mission: to explore strange new worlds
to seek out new life and new civilizations
to boldly go where no man has gone before
Man and woman – we are going …
New vistas await. Miracles are ours for the reaching
Shall we?