I like reading about love because love is the most important part of my life. In a book written by Ilia Delio, she and Teilhard de Chardin had immense things to say on the subject. I wrote stuff down and now I can’t remember who said what. Oh well … it was one of them.
When people hear the word “eros”, they tend to think of sex, as in “erotic”. I see sexuality as an immense gift, meant to be thoroughly enjoyed. But love as eros – is that what we’re talking about here?
The energy of eros is to accumulate for ourselves what we find valuable.
Eros is that ineffable longing that stretches beyond oneself for the sake of oneself.
I don’t know about you, but “me first” doesn’t sound like love to me. It sounds like possessing someone, keeping them in a box, staying around as long as they meet your needs.
Love is the fire that breathes life into matter and unifies elements center to center.
Love is the fragrance that makes them hasten together and leads them, freely and passionately, along their road of unity.
That sounds much better. You and me, creating something remarkable together. That’s the world I want to live in. It’s called agapé.
Agapé is love unconditioned, spontaneous, unmotivated. It’s love indifferent to any type of reward or reciprocity.
A person spending himself freely and carelessly for the other person
The unconditional willing of the good
So … I have countless opportunities to pour love into you. To want you to have a delightful life. And in my better moments, it doesn’t matter what you do in return.
Friend and friend
Sister and brother
Parent and child
Grandparent and grandchild
Lover and lover
All different … but deeply the same
It is enough