So many human beings with things to say in Colorado. And such a blessing to me. I love hearing people speak from the heart, and more and more I’m doing that too, even sometimes at the Belmont Diner, around the horseshoe-shaped lunch counter. It takes courage to speak out, not full of opinions about the events of the day, but rather about what’s supremely important in my life: love. May we all sense the stirrings of the heart and bring that energy to our lips. May “sometimes” turn to “often”.
Here are some sweet thoughts from the presenters on Day Two:
“What we value, what we think about, what we identify with, is transformed.”
It seems like a natural process happening within me, “on the road to find out”. No effort. As the Buddha said, what I think about … I become.
“In the last 20 years, global poverty has been cut in half, and will likely be wiped out in our lifetime. In 1950, less than 10% of the world’s population was considered middle class. Today it’s almost 50%. A century ago, just a few countries were democratic, and some of those only partially so. Today nearly 2/3 of countries are democracies. Two hundred years ago, only 12% of the world’s population could read. Today 86%.”
I had no idea of the advancements mankind has made. My focus has been almost exclusively on the problems. While naturally we need to address these problems, we also need to celebrate our emerging goodness.
“How shall we respond to challenges? We have choices:
1. Do nothing
2. Blame, cope, give our opinions
3. Transact – Do something! Anything. (a recipe for burnout)
4. Transform – Do something that gives life”
Whatever I do, may my heart dance with my mind.
“Think about what’s true for you. If it doesn’t motivate action, if it doesn’t guide intuition, if it doesn’t settle emotion, if it doesn’t build resilience, if it doesn’t guide what you do now, it’s not deep enough. It won’t save you.”
I need to sit quietly with myself and let my deepest truths bubble to the surface.
“Focus on the other person feeling understood and respected. Look for what’s best in what they’re offering to influence you.”
Let go of rehearsing my next speech. What beauty is held by the person sitting across from me?
“He acts whenever action is required. He cares for whatever needs his care. He destroys what needs to be destroyed.”
Not a suggestion for violence but a commitment to stand up for what enhances human life and to resist what doesn’t
“Spondic love is the experience of a deep sense of ‘I am’. And may you be. You want to give life force to the other person. You want them to have everything. And you can feel it, from your belly and heart. You want them to be blessed, exploded with life. It’s a kind of communion.”
Oh my. Relationship so beyond any self-help book. A deepness of “we” that can transform the world. Reverence. Connection. Love.