I think driving is such a metaphor for life, and what someone does on the road is a fair indicator of how they treat their family and friends.
I often take Highway 401 from Belmont into London, Ontario. It’s a freeway, and I usually go about 110 kilometres per hour (65 miles per hour). The Wellington Road exit ramp is a long one, maybe half a kilometre. It blends into a city street, where the maximum speed is 50 kph (30 mph).
When I move onto the ramp, I take my foot off the gas and coast towards the 50 kph sign. Invariably I’m tailgated and at busy times there are four or five cars bumper to bumper behind me. I’m curious about this but not really surprised.
Life is full of transitions from one condition to another. I enjoy blending from the first to the second, instead of jolting. On the 401, it’s the coasting rather than the slamming of brakes. At the dinner table, it’s a pause between the main course and dessert, rather than launching into pie as soon as the dinner plate is empty.
Life for sure has its twists and turns but I’ve never been keen on the hairpins. It seems that my spirit is happiest when I embrace the changes and let myself flow through them. Abruptness will come my way, such as the morning I woke up with a blood clot in my leg, but overall the transitions feel smooth. It’s like a dance – and a waltz instead of a frantic disco tune. A soaring symphony rather than the smashing of a drum. A film full of love rather than the latest shoot-’em-up thriller.
Am I “right” about this? Not at all. It just feels good.