1. I have pictures in my head of the way things should be … in Cuba, for instance. I shouldn’t be sick (but my cold continues on its merry way). I should be on the beach working on my tan and just hanging loose (but the heat is getting to me and so I’ve been showing up on the sand an hour or two before sunset). I should be talking to all sorts of people (but mostly I want to be alone). How come life has its own ideas about my life?
2. Friday night’s show at the theatre was so much fun. Last night’s focused on the MC’s booming voice. Too much amplified bluster for me. But the night before was golden. Even before the curtains parted, there were moments to behold. A young girl, maybe 12, was kneeling in front of the stage, tossing a beach ball to a far younger girl, about 5. The older child was so patient, hanging in with her partner for at least five minutes, smiling all the while. I figured they were sisters but when the music started, they went their separate ways.
A fellow dressed in black came onto the stage, wearing a white clown face on the back of his head. He turned away from us and began to dance. His arms and legs flipped and flopped as his new face scanned the audience. Those limbs bent opposite to us normal human beings. It was an unearthly flow of life. Very cool.
Michael Jackson put in an appearance, telling us all about Billie Jean and snarling out “Thriller”. We erupted when his moon walk slipped him backwards. Add it all up and it was a great evening.
3. I met a couple by the currency exchange office on Friday and we said we’d sit down together sometime soon and have a good talk. It happened yesterday afternoon on the beach. After twenty minutes, I was feeling overwhelmed by the husband’s dominance. Not only did he spew forth an incredible volume of speech, but most of it was in lecture mode. I mentioned that I’m a Buddhist and he came back with an analysis of several schools of Buddhism. Ouch. Should I just smile and accept what life is giving me in the moment or should I speak up? I chose the latter:
“Please stop. Too many words. I can’t process what you’re saying.” > Silence
The two of them walked on shortly thereafter. There were pleasant goodbyes but I don’t believe they’ll be seeking me out any time soon. And I’m fine with what I did. I had no antagonism towards them. I just wanted the noise to stop. It’s becoming clearer to me that I need to exit myself from noxious stimuli. And I will continue to do so.
4. I went to the gym yesterday. After all, Bruce goes to the gym. My cold was there with me but I decided that an hour of cardio in the air conditioning would be a good idea. They didn’t have an elliptical so I started out on the stationary bicycle. My rear end started complaining after half an hour. “Why didn’t you pack your padded shorts, Bruce?” How shortsighted of me … not about my packing prowess but being so critical. I can’t expect myself to anticipate all the little details of a Caribbean vacation. So I let my self-grousing go and moved to the StairMaster. Not a machine I’ve used before but at least my bum would recover nicely. I finished the hour on the vertical beast, going far slower than my brain said was okay. Silly brain.
Then it was yoga time. I spread my mat out on a nice blue floor and stretched assorted muscles of the back, arms and legs. They smiled. I was really tired but my nose was clear. Yay!
5. As I was discovering how to connect to the Internet and send blog posts on their cyber journey, I also spent time seeing how Brooke Henderson was doing in the first major golf tournament of the year. I’m obsessed with her. Brooke is Canadian, pretty, young and highly skilled. Plus she hits her drives about 270 yards. She’s climbing rapidly in the world rankings and I’ve imagined an unbroken line of success stretching into an infinite future. More silliness. Life doesn’t work that way. After yesterday’s third round, she was tied for 33rd, 8 strokes behind the leaders. Not a great week so far. I watched myself struggle with this fact. I want to cheer on a hero.
Actually, I felt a sweet sadness as I thought of her. All of us get a few life birdies along the way, mixed in with our fair share of double bogeys. May I embrace it all.
This is fun. I’m doing things my way while staying open to the unknown. More please