An hour ago I sat down with my laptop to write a blog post. Couldn’t think of a thing. Fifty minutes later I gave up. “Read your Stephen King novel, Bruce. Nothing to say tonight.”
Brian’s dad gave David a strained smile. There was sweat trickling down his cheeks and standing out on his forehead in a galaxy of fine dots. His eyes were red, and to David he looked like he had already lost weight … Mr. Ross now had one arm around his wife’s waist and his other hand clamped on her shoulder … David then realized that it wasn’t sweat trickling down Mr. Ross’s cheeks but tears … He realized that he was shortly going to be crying himself.
I’ve spent most of my life not crying, willing my face to stay dry even in the most despairing situations. All that changed when Jody died. I’ve cried for my wife most days in the 14 months that her body hasn’t been with me. Often this happens in the car when I’m alone, remembering Jody’s hand in mine as we floated towards London.
Lately I’ve been crying because I’m lonely and finally ready to look out into the world for a new love. I go out for meals with friends, partake of a weekly yoga class, and talk to the staff at World Gym. I contribute. But so often when I get back home, the tears come, both for me and Jody.
Oh so strangely, my eyes may moisten at the simplest moments. Why do I start crying when I see:
A mom and young daughter walking up steps towards their front door?
A couple holding hands on the street?
A most likely homeless guy looking for handouts by the left turn lane?
A symmetrical tree looming ahead?
A driver trying to enter the flow of traffic and no one letting them in?
An Asian golfer being interviewed on lpga.com and struggling to express herself in English?
A two-storey house at night, with a light shining from an upstairs bedroom?
9000 fans cheering in a London hockey arena?
Hardly anybody singing “O Canada” at that same game?
Person after person walking downtown with head tilted to their Smart Phone?
An obese woman shuffling down the sidewalk?
Three teenaged girls laughing and poking each other in the mall?
A man sitting alone in the library, tucked into a good book?
Is there something wrong with me?
Or is there something right with me?