A Facebook post caught my eye this morning.  The photo on the right felt part of my history … and it was.  I bought the book “Gramp” decades ago, and gave it away a decade later, along with virtually all my books, DVDs and CDs.

Today I read this:

In 1974, a young man of 23 made a choice that left everyone around him astonished.  While his peers chased careers, friendships and romances, Dan Jury chose a different path: he moved his 81-year-old grandfather, Frank Tugend, out of a sterile nursing home and into his modest apartment, dedicating himself to full-time caregiving.  This decision, viewed by some family members as a waste of youth, became a profound journey of compassion, patience and understanding.  Day after day, Dan learned to navigate the intimate tasks of care – bathing, administering medications, and offering comfort through moments of fear and confusion – lessons no job or social engagement could ever teach.

I no doubt was brought to silence when I first encountered “Gramp”, and the same is true now.  What a gift was given.

And what about now?  I’m about to begin a volunteering career at a care home in Gent.  Will I be a giver?  I say “Yes” … and also a receiver. 

Even though I’m as old as some of the residents, I have been blessed with good health and a kind heart.  There’s a future for us all … together.  I can feel it.

In the spirit of repurchasing things, I went to Amazon Belgium to find “Gramps”.  It was there.  For 352 euros.  I think not.

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Thank you, Dan Jury, for your love

You inspired me long ago

And today