A friend of mine is pregnant … a newbie will be coming to the family after two sons.  She’s been waiting to find out the sex of the child.

A couple of weeks ago, I asked if she cared if it was a girl or boy.  “No, I just want a healthy child.”  Okay … but I’ve been praying for a girl.

I walked into a coffee shop this morning and she was sitting there.  I sat down and started talking about the weird dreams I’ve been having.  She listened patiently.

And then …

“I’m having a girl”

Her eyes were shining so bright!  Actually all of her was glowing.  I’m sure her name is in the dictionary under the definition of “joy”.  I sat there stunned, revelling in the purity of the moment.  All was well.

We talked about things I know nothing about – morning sickness, walking around with a huge belly.  But the radiance outshone the experiences of pregnancy. 

I smiled to be in the presence of such delight … a woman yearning to welcome her daughter to the world.

My wife Jody and I didn’t have children.  No young one has ever called me “Daddy” or grabbed my hand on the street.  I’ve lived on the edge of regret about this for many years.

Still, my life is full of connection with other human beings.  As a teacher and volunteer, I’ve contributed to the lives of many children.  And so … “Goodbye, regret.”

How about that?  A huge source of happiness in life is beyond what I’ve known, or will ever know. 

I choose “No problemo” in response

Marvels abound

I simply need to open my eyes